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Saving Money By Buying Used

11.01.2019 by Lisa // Leave a Comment

One of the more obvious things we do to save money is buying used. We are selective about what we buy second-hand though; not all used things make sense for us. For example, we explicitly factor in the ease in which we buy used things – we don’t go out of the way / travel too far to pick up these items. Saving time is as important to us as saving money.

Things We Buy Used

Cars. This is the biggest ticket item of used goods we buy. We always buy used cars. New cars depreciate immediately – the value of the car immediately drops as soon as it is sold. As a family, we have owned two used cars, both of which we have purchased from CarMax. I’m not trying to get the best deal out there – hence buying from a used car dealership – I am just trying to override the immediate loss in value of buying a new car. We bought both used cars when we first moved to Houston. We ended up keeping one and taking it back to Brooklyn with us. I ended up selling my car back to CarMax, who appraised and bought it back for $5k less than what I paid two years prior. The loss reflected some rear-end damage, mileage use, overall wear-and-tear and further overall depreciation of the car. I’m still pleased with the experience of buying and selling my 2011 Nissan Rogue through CarMax and felt that given the damage, I received a fair price.

Kids Toys. We buy used toys regularly – particularly bikes and other larger items. Kids either physically outgrow their toys or become disinterested, so it makes sense to buy used. We are part of a local parent group (Park Slope Parents) that is constantly buying, selling and trading baby and kids items, so it makes it particularly easy for us to find relatively good quality toys at reasonable discounts. Most recently, for example, we bought a nearly new Radio Flyer tricycle for 50% off the price listed on Amazon. Bonus points for buying used toys because it saves us on assembly time.

Some types of furniture. We are selective about the used furniture we buy – we generally don’t buy upholstered items. I’ve purchased a used sofa in the past, when I first moved back to NYC after business school. It was a great sofa but it either had or attracted bed bugs in my Queens apartment. I won’t get into too much detail other than the fact that it was a scarring experience. Never again! Anyway, since then, I’ve been hesitant with most used furniture but am willing to buy all metal furniture, which are less likely to harbor critters. Off the same listserv we use to buy kids toys, we have purchased a metal guest bed and a leather chair. Both are utilitarian and minimal, just the aesthetic I appreciate.

Some types of clothing. I buy used maternity clothing because it just makes sense. It’s generally not worn out because women only wear it for 6-7 months and as a pregnant lady, I only need it for 6-7 months. Given the short fuse, it makes sense to go used. Also, having identified a maternity brand I really like – Seraphine – it’s easier for me to shop because I specifically target that brand and my size. For my second pregnancy, I ended up buying 6 dresses for $200, which I considered a huge steal, especially because in my first pregnancy, I easily spent that much on only two dresses. I purchased all six of these used dresses on Poshmark, which I find to have a better selection of Seraphine than eBay.

Just a few ways to save a bit of money and to reuse / recycle perfectly good things that others may no longer need. A double bottom-line.

Categories // Money Tags // buying used, carmax, used cars, used furniture, used toys

Building a Maternity Wardrobe

10.24.2019 by Lisa // Leave a Comment

Maternity dress from Seraphine

Building a maternity wardrobe is a bit different than building a regular wardrobe. First, there is a lot more expediency – you have to build one quickly in order to accommodate your growing belly – and it is much, much shorter-lived. I built mine to my priorities – I work in a business-professional setting in which most women wear dresses and skirts. Because I am client-facing, I often wear suits, or at least a jacket over my dress. While there is a limited selection of maternity wear appropriate for the workplace, it actually makes the process of building a wardrobe much easier – having fewer options sometimes helps!

My first pregnancy

Like many first-time pregnant ladies, I started from scratch. I went to the typical maternity stores – Pea in the Pod and Motherhood Maternity – and found most of the inventory to be a bit lacking for my needs. The items I did like, I found to be pricey. I was willing to invest some money because quality is important to me, I need to look pulled together for work, and because I expected to wear the clothing through at least another pregnancy. However, I didn’t want to make unreasonable purchases. In a simple search for famous pregnant moms, I landed on Kate Middleton, who consistently looked classic and sophisticated throughout her pregnancies. She had a lot of high-end, expensive clothing, but she also wore what the Brits called “high street fashion”, which is clothing that isn’t cheap, but is accessible. A few of her dresses were from the same brand – Seraphine – which quickly became my go-to for my entire professional maternity wardrobe. I ultimately made four large orders, purchasing 16 dresses for almost $1,200.

My new work wardrobe felt a bit like a capsule wardrobe. I could fit almost everything into a single drawer and I never felt at loss for what to wear every morning – I liked nearly every piece of clothing I purchased.

I had less of a need for casual clothing and tried to make do with oversized shirts and two pairs of jeans – blue and black – and a pair of leggings. However, I ultimately made a few more purchases for my babymoon (in which we took a Disney cruise!) including two tank tops, two casual light sweaters, a pair of shorts, and a bathing suit, totaling another $250. Definitely not an insignificant amount of money, but an investment I was willing to make because I knew I would be able to wear it for another pregnancy.

I would note that the one or two duds I bought were all casual wear. Because I assumed I could get by with cheap casual clothing, I made a few purchases on Amazon, but found that the fit was poor and the material was uncomfortable. Building my maternity wardrobe reminded me that quality clothing is worth it – I may pay a bit extra, but I will enjoy wearing it. The clothing I bought on Amazon was barely worn and eventually donated – ultimately money poorly spent.

My second pregnancy

To be honest, it took a good amount of willpower to not go on another shopping spree with my second pregnancy. I wanted to justify it with the fact that I had more client meetings and I was pregnant in different seasons – my first pregnancy was mostly fall and winter, my second pregnancy was mostly spring and summer – so I obviously needed more clothing. I ultimately did do some shopping but practiced some control by choosing to purchase only used clothing. Used maternity clothing is actually great – it’s not worn for long and thus, generally in good shape. Because I liked my Seraphine dresses so much from my first pregnancy, I specifically searched for the brand’s dresses on Poshmark, which I found to have a better selection than Ebay. Despite the high shipping costs, I ended up purchasing 6 dresses for $210, which I found to be really reasonable. It is a bit of a crapshoot – one dress had a bit of cat hair on it – but on the whole, the dresses were all clean and showed little wear and tear. I made one new purchase – a pair of white jeans from Loft’s maternity line – which brought my grand total to $260. Not bad. When I added my “new” clothing to my preexisting wardrobe, I felt like I had hit a saturation point. I knew I could go through my second pregnancy comfortably and with style, both in my professional and personal life. Win!

Photo: Laura Lee

Categories // Life Tags // maternity, maternity dresses, maternity wear, maternity workwear, pea in the pod, pregnancy, professional maternity wear, seraphine

Our trip to Spain with our 14-month old – Lessons and Costs

10.16.2019 by Lisa // Leave a Comment

In May 2017, we took a 6-day trip to Spain with our 14-month old, Emily. It was a fairly spontaneous trip that I booked on a whim after getting an email advertising an inexpensive flight deal to Madrid on a discount airline, Air Europa. After a fairly tough year, I thought we deserved a nice trip. Our round trip tickets cost $850, a great deal for an international flight over Memorial Day weekend.

Like our past trips, I created a travel plan. Our itinerary included 2-nights in Madrid and 2-nights in Barcelona, in which we would connect between the two cities via rail. Our round trip rail tickets were a reasonable $175. In aggregate, our total travel costs amounted to just about $1,000. Since Emily was still an infant, she did not have her own seat on either the plane or train – it was a bit of a tight fit on the small Air Europa plane seats, but the train seats were roomy and more than accommodated the three of us.

Since we had lived for two years in Houston but our families were in NYC, we had flown multiple times with Emily. Her first flight was as a 3-months old! 

Things We Learned on our First International Trip with a Toddler

It’s not just about us anymore. Our biggest lesson. Ken and I were fairly frequent travelers – we had both travelled to various countries, both together and apart. When we travel together, we aren’t overly ambitious – we usually plan one activity a day, and because we both like (love) food, we make sure to build in time for a tasty lunch and dinner. Well, our first international trip with our daughter proved to be a reality check. During our three days in Madrid, we did exactly one activity! We went to Stadium Bernabeu to check out the Real Madrid football stadium (it’s a beautiful stadium, recommended!). We ate out exactly zero times! Instead, we went to the local Carrefour supermarket and loaded up on cured meats, cheese, and bread, and essentially ate that for all of our meals. We considered our two days in Barcelona to be fairly successful because we made it to Park Guell and had lunch out twice and dinner out once. Although we had booked tickets to see Sagrada Familia, we ultimately didn’t make it (see jet lag below). Truthfully, I was disappointed in the first days of our trip because our level of activity was so inconsistent with the trips we had taken in the past. But then realization set in. It wasn’t about me and Ken anymore. With Emily, we had to reset our travel expectations. We had to take things at a slower pace, accommodate for the fact that she needed to nap and rest, and appreciate what we were able to do together as a family.

Jet lag – just give in. In our past travels, we resisted jet lag by launching straight into a tourist activity, getting a bite of food, or grabbing a drink. On this trip, we succumbed to jet lag. During the entirety of our trip, Emily slept as if we were still at home in NYC. So we slept as if we were still at home in NYC. And you know what? We came to terms with our new reality (see above) and it was totally fine.

Stay somewhere with a kitchen. In Madrid, we stayed at a conveniently located AirBNB with a small kitchenette. As I had mentioned, Ken and I basically noshed on cured meats and bread whenever we got hungry, but it was convenient to have basic utensils and dishes and a place to prep meals for Emily, even if meal prep was just heating up packets of puréed food.

Get to the airport early! We arrived at the airport two hours ahead of boarding time, which we assumed would be plenty of time based on our prior international trips. We didn’t take into account a few things – we had a 14-month old who was off her sleep schedule, a lot more stuff, and we were traveling on a discount airline that didn’t use check-in kiosks. When we arrived at the airport, we joined a very long line and barely made it past the security check-point in time. For future reference, arriving 3 hours ahead of time would probably be more appropriate and less stressful.

Pack medicine. Emily was cutting a tooth during our trip, which meant one thing was imminent – a fever. We had brought a thermometer and infant Motrin, which we find to be more effective at taking her fever down than Tylenol. Because we were running low on Motrin, we ended up purchasing generic fever medication from a well-supplied pharmacy in Barcelona, but between the illness and jet-lag, it would have been easier had we packed enough medication. We were also lucky to be traveling through developed cities with modern pharmacies that seemed trustworthy – had we not been, it would have been much more of an issue.

Like I mentioned, we spent around $1,000 in travel costs, which included our round-trip airfare tickets from NYC to Madrid and our round-trip train tickets from Madrid to Barcelona. The cost of our accommodations? Fairly minimal as well. Our two-night stay at the AirBNB in Madrid was an affordable $250. It was a small studio but certainly larger than a hotel room, with the added-plus of being centrally located and inclusive of a kitchenette. In Barcelona, we stayed at the Hilton Barcelona for 2-nights using a combination of remnant points from our British Airways account and from my Hilton HHonors account, topped up with a combined cash total of $100. Our Hilton Barcelona stay also included a great breakfast buffet every morning that we took advantage of, especially for Emily, who is quite fond of hard boiled eggs.

Our last night in Spain was actually the most expensive – we stayed at the Hilton Madrid airport hotel to make it easier for us to get to the airport early the following morning to catch our flight home. For $150, it was fairly utilitarian, but we did enjoy the indoor pool. In total, our combined cost of accommodations was $500.

I would estimate another $500 for food, local transport, and other miscellaneous items, with a final tally of $2,000 for our 6-day, 5-night trip to Spain, including all transportation, room and board, and other travel expenses. Although it was a different type of trip from the ones we have taken in the past, it proved to be an instructive and enjoyable first foray into international travel with a baby / toddler.

Categories // Life, Money Tags // airbnb, barcelona, kitchenette, madrid, saving money, traveling with toddler

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